Tuesday, March 15, 2011

6 Weeks?!?!

I have just under 6 weeks left until baby Addalyn joins our family and I have to be honest, I am not ready! I have had some serious anxiety about #4 joining our family. I know that she is supposed to be here with us, and I know that she has waited patiently for her chance to finally join us. I am just not sure how I am going to adjust to 4 kids.
I admit I feel a little guilty about adding a new one to our family. I struggle with patience already for the three I already have, and I know that my patience will be stretched even thinner with a newborn. Another part of my guilt comes from my life beening so busy with school and everything else. I feel I don't give my kids everything they need right now attention wise, and it seems a little neglectful to add another that will take up more of my time and attention that the other three need. I don't want my other 3 to feel pushed aside just because Addalyn will be here.
Part of this realization on my part has helped to contribute to the decision that I need to put schooling on hold for a bit to give my kids more of my time and hopefully help me not to be so stressed and on edge.
I think that the child I worry about most with another baby in the house is deKyn. He starts Kindergarten next year and as many of you know has his own struggles that we are trying to help him through. deKyn needs more of his own "type" of attention and I worry that I won't have the time to give it to him. I don't want deKyn to fail at anything and more than anything I want to see him succeed academically and socially. I just don't want Addalyn to be one more reason that I can't give him that extra attention and help that he needs.
Davyn is such a mamma's boy that I wonder how that adjustment will go for him when he's not the baby of the family anymore. He has always been really good with other babies that he sees, but he gets jealous if I show anyone extra attention and not him. Especially if that someone else is Taegyn. He gets down-right mean when I am giving Taegyn loves or cuddling her.
Taegyn on the other hand is one that I am not too worried about when it comes to adjusting to a new little one in our household. It's true she is more of a Daddy's girl so maybe it might be hard if she doesn't get as much daddy time, but Cory is pretty good about giving her lots of attention.
It all just comes back down to me. I am not quite prepared and ready for another one. I stress all the time about how much I yell at my kids and ask myself everyday why I can't just let the little stuff go and "enjoy" them more. That is the biggest thing for me. I Love my kids more than anything but forget to just enjoy them and the stages of life that they are in right now. I don't want to look back and have a bunch of regrets that I didn't enjoy them enough because I let the little things of everyday life keep me from doing so.
So I guess that's sort of where I am at, denial. Cory keeps telling me we need to bring up all the baby stuff and get it put together and cleaned and rearrange things so that it is all set up for when she comes. I keep telling him we will do it later and that we still have plenty of time before she comes. Truth is, it is going by way too fast and she is going to be here before we know it. I need to start preparing myself as best as I can now so it's not such a shock to our home front when she does arrive. I need to snap out of my denial and make a plan as to how to prepare myself better for whats ahead.

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

More cakes

This isn't quite done. I didn't have time to finish this one due to the fact of Davyn's stuff. I had a cowboy and bull made out of fondant to go on top of this cake and I was in the process of making horse shoes to go around it too.
This girl wanted a scrapbook birthday cake for her sister-in-law. It was actually a lot of fun making the details for this cake, but it did take awhile.


My friend I used to work with wanted a Mater cake for her son's birthday. This is what I came up with.
I made this cake for Cory's aunt's birthday. It was simple and easy and I thought it turned out super cute.

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Davyn's Ordeal

My poor Davyn can't seem to catch a break. It seems that we have been to the doctors on and off for 6 weeks. It all started when he got his first ear infection at the beginning of January right after his tubes fell out of his ears. The doctors put him on Augmentin (a stronger antibiotic then Amoxicillian) to rid him of his ear infection. 5 days into his antibiotic, he got a horrible diaper rash that I couldn't get under control so I took him off his meds. About a week later, I took him back into the doctor and was told he had another ear infection in the opposite ear and was also told that his diaper rash had turned into a yeast infection. The doctors gave me Omnicef this time around and a topical cream to try to combat the yeast infection in his diaper area. About a week after his antibiotics were over, I took him back in to make sure his ear infections were gone. While I was there, I had the doctor look at his yeast infection and he said for us to keep using the cream and that it should clear up. This was on a Thursday. Little did I know how quickly the yeast infection would go from something minor to a serious staph infection.
By Monday, Davyn developed a pimple like sore located between his belly button and his genital area. It was no bigger than a pin prick and I didn't think much of it. On Tuesday, the area had grown to the size of a pea and I mention it to Cory. But by Wednesday it was the size of a quarter, the area surrounding it was red and inflamed, and it was tender to the touch. So, I took him back to the doctor where they attempted to squeeze as much ooze out of it as they could and took a culture of it to see what kind of bacteria we were fighting. Again they sent us home with more antibiotics and told us to come back if the area got any bigger. By 8 that night, it had grown to the size a little bigger than a half dollar. Davyn was having a hard time moving around at this point. He was walking hunched over and would scream when he got bumped or tried to straighten up. I called my doctor and she told us to head straight to the ER to get it drained and looked at.
When we got to the ER, the doctor was concerned about how big the mass was getting. They wanted to do an ultra sound to see how much puss was actually in the wound and surrounding area. However, Davyn did not want anyone to touch him. So they gave him morphine and did the ultra sound. At that point, the puss was only in a spot about the size of a quarter and the other spots that were hard were do to the infections. They lanced the area and drained what they could. They also had Davyn hooked up to the IV to give him heavy doses of Antibiotics. They sent us home around mid-night and told us to come back for more Antibiotics in 8 hours. They also wanted to make sure that the swelling and redness was decreasing.

Cory took Davyn back to the hospital at 7 in the morning on Thursday morning for his round of antibiotics. While they were there, Davyn had developed a fever and his blood pressure was slightly elevated. They gave him his meds and then asked that we come back in another 8 hours so that they could check on him and so that he could get another round of antibiotics.


We went back in at 4 and when they looked at the area, they were really concerned about how far down the infection had spread. It had spread almost to the base of his penis. They were also concerned with the fact that he had had many rounds of antibiotics and it didn't seem to be reducing the swelling and redness. At that point the doctor suggested that we sedate Davyn, open him up, drain the puss, and pack the wound so that it had a port to drain out of.

Being a mom and watching your child in so much pain is the most helpless feeling that there is. The worst part for me was that I couldn't explain to Davyn that these people were trying to help him feel better. All he could understand was that every time one of the doctors came into his room he was being held down and hurt. Cory and I agreed that opening the wound and really cleaning it out was probably the best idea for Davyn. Even sedated, Davyn fought them opening him up. He moaned and said ouch and that about broke my heart! They did drain a lot of puss out and I am sure that relieved a lot of the pressure for Davyn.
After the doctor was done, and Davyn had come out of sedation, he expressed his worries. He told us he wanted to keep us over night for observation so that doctors could continuously check on the wound to make sure that it wasn't spreading anymore. He also wanted to keep Davyn on alternating medications through out the night to fight off a broader range of bacteria since we were still waiting on the results of the culture. He also wanted us to stay so that the Pediatric doctor at the hospital could repack the wound with clean dressing in the morning.
By the next day the redness had gone down, and the swelling had subsided a little which was a good sign. However, they had to sedate him again to repack the wound. Instead of putting him all the way under like they did the day before, they gave him something to relax him and to make him loopy. It did not work. 4 of us had to hold him down. His screaming was worse than I have ever heard out of any of my kids, I barley held it together as he was screaming No, Ouch, and struggling to fight us off of him.
On Friday after noon, the Pediatrician said things were looking a lot better and discharged us with the orders to follow up with our primary care physician on Monday.
On Saturday, we were back at the doctors again because the packing had completely come out of his wound and we were told that it was important that it stayed in. Luckily the doctor we saw assessed the area, told us that she didn't see any puss and said that it would be too hard to get packing back in the wound. I was really relieved. I don't think I could have held him down again (this time without drugs) so that they could repack his wound.
We still have a follow up visit with our doctor on Monday to make sure everything is still looking good and to talk about how to try to prevent as much as possible this type of thing happening again.
Unfortunately for us, we got the results back of Davyn's culture Saturday night. I was a little surprised to find out that he has MRSA. I have to admit I don't know much about MRSA, but what little I do know is that it's bad. Once you have it, you will never fully get rid of it. It is a form of bacteria that is resistant to almost all antibiotics. I also know that it is highly contagious when someone has an outbreak. Again, I will have to ask the doctor on Monday what all we can do to prevent something like this happening again, and what we can do to keep it from spreading to the rest of our family.
I am grateful for the doctors and nurses that helped us. They did do a great job with Davyn. They did everything they could to try to explain to him the things that they would do before they did them, and they were really accommodating and reassuring to us as the parents. I just hope that I don't have to do something like this again. If I can fall apart over my son getting his abscess drained, I don't know how well I would do in other life threatening situations!

Friday, February 11, 2011

Home made Christmas

We didn't have a lot of money to spend on Christmas this year and Cory and I talked about getting things for our kids that they would enjoy, not just getting them something because it's Christmas. Little did I know that that conversations would turn into a lot of work and some really big projects.
Since we didn't have much money, we decided to use the resources that we had lying around. What might that have been you ask? Paint and a lot of wood. So, this is what we decided. Taegyn wanted "real" make-up from Santa, so we thought it would be a great idea to make her a Vanity with little boxes to put her make-up in and a mirror so that she could put it on.
For Davyn, we decided to refurbish (because it was in pieces) a rocking plane that Cory's real dad had made Cory when he was a baby.
As for deKyn, we were going to build him a sled, but ended up getting a really awesome one from is Uncle Garry.

So, our last big gift for our kids was their "BIG" gift from us. We built them a play house under our stairs in the basement. When I originally brought the idea up to Cory, I was thinking something small and modest with a door and a few windows that they could play in. Anyone that knows my husband, knows that he thinks a lot bigger. And when I say a lot bigger, I mean we have a two story play house with a slide that comes out half way into our room down stairs.






Even though the projects were stressful and time consuming and hard, our kids' faces when they saw their presents were priceless. I can tell you that they enjoy more the ones that we made for them than they do the ones we bought at the store.
It is also true that we ran out of time and so the painting job on our house isn't completely finished and the inside still needs some sheet rock, mudding, taping and paint, but that doesn't stop our kids from playing in it and sleeping in it every chance that they get.

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Ghetto fun

Can you say ghetto fun at the Isaacson house? My kids were bored one day and Cory decided that it would be a fabulous idea to take the mattresses off of deKyn and Taegyn's beds and build a "slide" for them to play on.


So here you have it. Pictures of our kids "sliding" down our stairs.

They had an absolute blast doing it, and to be honest, it was quite entertaining to watch them go up and down.
I think trying to climb up the mattresses was the hardest thing for them to do. And I was really surprised at how much air that they could get bouncing down the slide.

So, it was a hit and my kids have frequently asked since to do the slide down the stairs.

There you have it everyone, if you are looking for cheap fun entertainment, ghetto mattress sliding is the way to go!

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Halloween costumes

Like I said before, I know I am behind, but I promise this is the last post from October. It rained this year and deKyn is the only one that stayed out for very long because he wanted LOTS of candy. Taegyn kept telling me that she didn't want anymore candy, she just wanted to go home. Definitely not my child! :)
I made this costume 3 hours before we went out for Halloween.

Even though deKyn is a Ninja, he kept telling us that he was a zombie. So, deKyn was a zombie this year.
We bought this costume from Tatum. I think that she makes the cutest lion ever!




Monday, January 17, 2011

Pumpkin carving







I know that I am really behind, but here are some pictures of when we did our pumpkins this year. This was the first year that deKyn did a lot of the pumpkin carving by himself. He was so proud!